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'Civility' is the Word of the Day

I have never blogged on Troy Patch because it always seemed like I was spending more time defending anything I responded to here than was productive for me. Besides I have other places to get things off my chest.

Today is different though. We all lived through a year of negativity as it regards our city and its government. More if you count all the wranglings that led up to the 2011 elections where I entered the fray officially.

Lets talk about civility for a minute. By definition, a: civilized conduct; especially: courtesy, politeness b: a polite act or expression. I don't mean to talk and act like a teacher here (not that theres anything wrong with that, I simply haven't achieved that level of deserved respect) , but courtesy and politeness are words that I haven't seen in Troy a lot these days. Sure we can bump into each other on the street, or at fund raisers,  shake hands and make small talk and smile at a joke at times, even if on different sides of a topic. But true civility needs to manifest itself in not only our face to face meetings, but in our arms length discussions (council meetings), and especially facebook or Patch postings, if we are to be taken seriously for our personal civil actions.

Anyone that knows me personally, knows that I am about the most civil guy they'll meet. I honestly was fired from a job in my early 20's, and one of the reasons on the release document... "tries to please too many people". Let that be a lesson to you all... By the same token, many of you here met me through facebook postings beginning around January 2010 regarding city affairs.

I admit some of my criticism early on was tough on previous management and councils. I tried to maintain civility, but I also have a sharp tongue and odd sense of humor at times... things in writing seldom appear in the same context or thought pattern that they are written, and often are interpreted differently by folks that read them. Sarcasm is my friend and I've never been afraid to use it to make a point. It's a curse and a friend at times.

I don't mean to preach at anyone, because a change in attitude and talk begins with me. By me I mean me, but also each and every one of us. This blog is timely because I am trying to reach out to anyone that plans on attending todays meeting, or any in the future to admonish them to just be civil. Realize there is a real person with actual feelings on the other side of what you decide to say. Say it like you were holding their hand in a handshake, not as if you were hidden behind a microphone or computer screen. We all act differently when we connect.

The meeting today for me is to find out the appropriate plan of action in light of the Secretary of States interpretation of the law. Yes we have confidence in our city attorney's interpretation of the law, but as a non attorney, I have to have confidence that the Secretary of State knows a little something about election laws as well. Who trumps who, and how do we go about finding out who's legally most accurate. At the end of the day, we may be setting the standard for the rest of the state regarding poorly stated legislation on recalls. It may turn out both are correct, and we need to close a loop in the law. Who's fault is that?

Enough Kumbaya... It's a jungle out there, be careful... see you at todays meeting, and Have a great Thanksgiving, we have much to be thankful for.

Dave Henderson

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Randy Husk

10:30 am on Wednesday, November 21, 2012

The question really should be....What prompted the letter in the first place...The City of Troy position has been public for months....why the letter 10 days after the election...Who asked for it and why.

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Sharon

8:15 pm on Wednesday, November 21, 2012

Randy, it was the same old gang as always making trouble there today -- all the people who are furious that Janice Daniels was recalled. Talk about the fix being in! They had their boys Fleming and Henderson call the meeting after they asked the SoS to send out a response. The same Secretary of States office that refused to act when Howrylak and the TCU put 3 fake library proposals on our ballot 2 years ago! So they get the response from SOS they want, send out press releases to alert the media that janice Daniels was unfairly recalled, and have Fleming put up a resolution that we ask the Attorney General to make a binding decision for us in a phone call (huh?). And nobody bothered to suggest that at least the resolution say we ask for an opinion rather than a binding one? What a bunch of nonsense and a waste of everyone's time!

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Dave Henderson

8:43 am on Thursday, November 22, 2012

Sharon, (and Randy). I was happy with the direction we were headed. It was a coin flip for me who took over the Mayors spot, but I was confident it had to be one of the three whos terms expired already this coming November, and I was also an advocate that I wanted a commitment from whoever it was to not use the position as a springboard for a fall run for some office. If you win an election to springboard for Mayor, you deserve the leg up, but not by appointment. The way it turned out with Mr. Slater at the helm was the best outcome assuming we know the political aspirations of the three. I spent a lot of time with the city attorney in the summer making sure we were ready as a group to know how to handle a recall regrouping. I was comfortable with her interpretation, and ready willing and able, as was demonstrated at the last meeting to carry out the process.

Everything changed when the state indicated we were proceeding illegally. As I stated yesterday, I've spent a career without being named personally in a lawsuit, and I fully intend on continuing that streak. I am on record as being willing to comply with the law (whatever that ends up being). That is monumentally important when you are facing a judge in a legal battle. This may never get that far, it might end up there Tuesday. None of us know.

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Dave Henderson

8:54 am on Thursday, November 22, 2012

As for who or what prompted the letter from the SoS. That means little to me, but here are some facts.

The township of Tekonshas process was ignored by the state where ours wasn't. Tekonsha = population 700 in a town almost in Indiana without major newspaper or t.v. coverage. Troy = population 80,000 + in the heart of Oakland County with the microscope of the major press on us for the past year. Until we broke the law, there was no need for the state to call us. We broke the law on Nov. 12, the city attorney received a letter on Nov. 16, and the letter indicated there had been previous conversations between the two of them. So less than 4 days from an illegal activity but more than one day. None of that is a surprise to me except for the part that we didn't know we were proceeding illegally according to the state.

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Sharon

9:52 am on Thursday, November 22, 2012

Dave I would suggest the source means little to you because you don't understand that the people who held a press conference outside "in support" of you are the ones behind this mess, that they orchestrated it from the start and that you DON'T WANT TO KNOW that you are merely a pawn in their extremely cynical board game that is Troy. The fact that you did not HOWL over the idea that we would let the Atty Gen submit a binding opinion -- something that is probably illegal and unconstitutional -- tells me you are in on the fix or that you don't know what you are doing. Civility, I'm afraid to say, is not as important as integrity and competence -- afterall, that's your own excuse for being uncivil to previous council... right?

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Dave Henderson

2:08 pm on Thursday, November 22, 2012

Aleck, can I call you Aleck? I've heard that lapdog comment a few times this week. I have a great deal of respect for the city attorney. I have appreciated her guidance on many legal issues we've faced this year. I also happen to know there is a legal team behind the SoS's office, and I also appreciate their breadth of knowledge regarding election law. It is foolish for us to not pursue at a minimum a third opinion, and the A/G seemed to me to be a pretty good idea. For now, we have to wait and watch. I'm hopeful this was all just a bluff, and we carry on our business as we began it last week. If not, I feel confident the law will look favorably on me as I tried to comply to the best of my ability.

Sharon, i don't know who instigated the prying into our affairs, or when. I have my suspicions as do you... but I also don't discount the potential that the SoS was watching us carefully, and didn't act until we went out of lockstep with the state law. We haven't been exactly invisible to the state the last year, and the city attorney admitted the other day she never consulted with anyone higher than the county.

So now we wait...

John David

11:58 am on Wednesday, November 21, 2012

Dave, civility should be the rule. I did a check on MI election law. This link is to Section 168.321 of the 1954 law. Subsection (3) while addressing the situation where a council is reduced to less than a quorum, the procedures show that the legislature provides for other than election at a special rather than regular election. I would hope that the council and city attorney thoroughly review all election law before following the course suggested by the SoS. As Jeff S. pointed out on another thread, another MI community replaced a recalled trustee at a regular election and was not forced to have a special election by the state.

http://www.legislature.mi.gov/(S(rxcrlgy3cpjbrl45aooxut45))/mileg.aspx?page=getObject&objectName=mcl-168-321

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Dale Murrish

12:06 pm on Wednesday, November 21, 2012

Dave, I agree with you wholeheartedly. As we disagree, we must be civil. The harsh name calling and personal attacks of the last year must stop if we are to heal and move forward as a community. You have good advice for all of us.

I admire you for taking the heat on the Patch since before your election to council and staying engaged with people who disagree. Let’s all agree to disagree without being disagreeable.

Good luck this afternoon at the council meeting. I sent the council a letter with my opinions yesterday. Best wishes as you work together to move our town forward.

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Glenn

1:06 pm on Wednesday, November 21, 2012

Famous Facebook quotes from Dave Henderson (aka: the most civil guy you'll ever meet)

"She's a farce of a Mayor (Mayor Schilling) with a horrible attitude and no concept about representing the majority." 10/29/2010

"This management team and council needs adult supervision." 06/16/2011

"That's the whole problem with these idiots (former council)... Yeah I said it idiots." 05/09/2011

"Most on council couldn't find their butts with both hands." 05/09/2011

"Our councils new book... Dummies for finance." 05/09/2011

"I haven't seen a public figure (Dane Slater) fight so hard to to spit a sentence out. 02/22/11

"John Szerlag is absolutely out of touch, and needs to be shown the door." 02/18/2011

"She (Mayor Schilling) is a waste of council chair space and her condecending (sic) school marm attitude is tiresome. 11/01/2010

I'm researching recall info for her (Mayor Schilling) right now in the city charter... I've had enough of her. Years too late. I've had it with her and next fall is a whole year away. Do we just sit complacent and let her keep governing the way she governs. There have got to be multitudes of people that would sign that petition." 11/01/2010

So please Dave, please tell us more about the benefits of civility and how people shouldn't utilize recalls for anything but the most heinous of crimes. Funny how once you're on council everybody should be so polite and loving. What's that saying again? Do as I say, not as I do.

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Jeff

2:59 pm on Wednesday, November 21, 2012

Councilman Henderson...oppps! Did you forget all about those quotes you made since the last 2 years? I'm sure, they were all taken out of context, right?

And that's...'the most civil guy we'll ever meet'? (cough, cough)

Also, I agree that Councilman Henderson has had quite a change of heart regarding 'recalls.' Amazing...

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Dave Henderson

8:17 am on Thursday, November 22, 2012

Let me cut and paste a paragraph from the blog above "I admit some of my criticism early on was tough on previous management and councils. I tried to maintain civility, but I also have a sharp tongue and odd sense of humor at times... things in writing seldom appear in the same context or thought pattern that they are written, and often are interpreted differently by folks that read them. Sarcasm is my friend and I've never been afraid to use it to make a point. It's a curse and a friend at times."

Mea Culpa. The qoutes (some I remember and some I'm not sure are actually mine, but I'll accept them all because I was a mouth piece for a very large group of tax fighters), were certainly from a point in time where the citizens of Troy (me being one of them) were being ignored by council and management. They were made at a time when many including myself were on the brink of losing their homes, and trying to deal with yet another entity trying to get into our pockets by way of a large tax increase. My decision was to continue fighting instead of giving in to creditors including the City of Troy.

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Dave Henderson

8:18 am on Thursday, November 22, 2012

Ha ha Patch... I forgot about the tolstoy comment when you exceed the word limit :0)

What my point was, it is easy to sit behind a computer and bang away a few snarling bits... what you won't find from me is a time in front of a microphone, t.v. camera, or face to face where I've said some of the things I've knocked out on a keyboard. That goes for all of us.

What has escalated in the last year is a willingness by some to stand in front of a camera with a willing press to shoot all of our ugliness. And as far as my ox being gored ( a quote somewhere in these comments). I don't have any livestock in this ever escalating wierdness we call Troy Politics. I ran for me and me alone. I have been learning much about government, games and policy. Running for office does change your perspective. I knew that coming into this, and it was a big deciding factor when I actually turned my petitions in. I recommend it for all.

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Glenn

3:39 pm on Thursday, November 22, 2012

Who are you trying to kid Dave. Everyone of those quotes are yours. You posted them. Your picture was next to every one. Each and every quote is still on the TCU page and if they somehow disappear I can forward you snapshots of them.

Jeff S.

1:37 pm on Wednesday, November 21, 2012

Thanks for that collection of Dave Henderson quotes! But don't forget about when he called his fellow Troy citizens "sheeple" on 6/1/2011. Just another example of the civility from our esteemed councilperson.

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Thomas Belian

1:47 pm on Wednesday, November 21, 2012

Jeff and Glenn, easy to be armchair council members isn't it?

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Glenn

1:51 pm on Wednesday, November 21, 2012

Tom, I think that's a question better posed to Mr. Henderson since he's enjoyed playing both sides of this particular field. Nasty as the best of em when it didn't cost him anything, then pleads for civility when his ox gets gored. Not surprising, just a tad hypocritical. Then again, I never expected anything less from Dave "Close the library and buy everybody a Kindle" Henderson.

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Jeff S.

1:54 pm on Wednesday, November 21, 2012

Personally, I find it very easy to refrain from calling people "idiots" and "sheeple" on Facebook. Don't you?

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Dave Henderson

8:23 am on Thursday, November 22, 2012

Glenn, that you (collectively) keep digging up the kindle remark cracks me up. That was a comment made when the city told us they needed $ 9/million a year in extra taxes to save the library, when in fact the budget and subsequent tax increase they finally landed on and the people approved was about a third of that. Thank goodness someone fought the tax battle even if they had to use story problems to illustrate the enormity of the tax hike in 2010. But you can tell everyone I wanted to close the library and buy everyone a kindle if you want to and ignore my true point.

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Sharon

9:58 am on Thursday, November 22, 2012

Dave, re your Kindle remark. It looks like you are confusing your own past misleading statements. Isn't the $9 million you are talking about the same money that Janice Daniels claimed could come from the money the city was going to pay for the transit center and should be diverted to the library? Of course, it was federal money, so that was never true. You repeated that "incorrect assertion" right up until Aug the year we tried to pass Proposal 1, which would have given us a 7-day library for 10 years. But no. YOU AND JANICE KILLED OUR 7-DAY LIBRARY hopes by not telling the truth about that $9 million and yes, like Marie Antoinette you said, let them buy Kindles! Well, I was in financial trouble too, at the time, and that comment was a slap in the face!!!!!!

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Dave Henderson

2:10 pm on Thursday, November 22, 2012

Give or take a couple bucks, the 1.9 millage increase was the one that I used for the kindle comment, not the transit center issue.

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Glenn

3:35 pm on Thursday, November 22, 2012

You're trying to revise history again Councilman Henderson. In response to a TCU post regarding the candgnews.com article "Four Library Millage Proposals Will Be On the November Ballot" this is what you wrote:

"I'm waiting on responses from council to explain how the new library needs $ 4 million a year instead of the current $ 2 million budget. I have a loose laymans explanation from another citizen but an extra $ 2 million a year deserves much more than that. $4 million next year could purchase 23,529 kindles for troy residents in 2011. A kindle has over a million books stored.There are slightly over 30,000 households in Troy. The first year budget could provide way more reading material in residents hands if the city bought every home a Kindle, than a bricks and mortar library can contain. Times are changing, and city and federal governments need to change with them. I think if Troy closed the library and bought electronic media for everyone, the entire country would read about how progressive we were as a community. Now that's enticing people to move here." Facebook Dave Henderson Sept. 24th, 2010.

There was never any mention of this mythical $9 million anywhere in that thread. I'm also failing to see any sarcasm in that post. It seems like you truly thought this would be a good solution. After all you are a self professed "out of the box thinker."

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Glenn

3:52 pm on Thursday, November 22, 2012

Oh and here's another one where Facebook Dave doubles down on the Kindle idea and exposes his ignorance on how public libraries are allowed to operate by law.

Not sure about the kindle cost for books, but at $ 4 million a year for 10 years... the city could supply a lot of electronic books to every household even after the initial purchase of the gadget the first year. I'm all for the pay toplay concept as well... Why should I have to pay the same for the library as everyone else when I never go there. Charge all the big users for a library card, and maybe they'd only need $ 1 million a year, or $ 3 million a year. Dave Henderson September 25th, 2010

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Dave Henderson

10:42 pm on Thursday, November 22, 2012

Thanks for the correction. I've had a lot on my plate the last year, and all the millage attempts do run together for me. The numbers and the timing may not jive with what you have rolodexed so perfectly, but the point remains unchanged

Thomas Belian

1:56 pm on Wednesday, November 21, 2012

Glenn, so you say (/post). The final word on someone's intention goes to you. Far be it from me to argue.

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Glenn

2:17 pm on Wednesday, November 21, 2012

I'm not claiming to be the final word on someone's intentions Tom. But I believe this is a forum for expressing one's opinion. I have done so, just as you have. But that's the beauty of social media. You can get a pretty good idea about somebody's character and intentions by paying attention to what they say. Dave Henderson has said an awful lot over the last few years. Maya Angelou once said, “The first time someone shows you who they are, believe them.” So, in my opinion, Dave is more likely to be who he has shown himself to be, rather than who he now claims to be. But, by all means, feel free to disagree.

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Dave Henderson

8:27 am on Thursday, November 22, 2012

Maya Angelou didn't have Facebook to hide behind during a huge tax battle when her elected officials were ignoring the will of the people (as evidenced by two out of three felled increase attempts) :0)

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Glenn

3:46 pm on Thursday, November 22, 2012

Well Dave, Maya Angelou probably wouldn't have been part of or supported an unethical group that put out misleading/false information about the size of the tax increase or the existence of a mythical slush fund. Also, she most likely wouldn't have authored 3 fake millage proposals to confuse the electorate on the second vote. You chose to place yourself squarely in the company of that crowd. That speaks volumes about your ethics and character and leads me to question your innocence and motivation in this current fiasco.

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Dave Henderson

10:44 pm on Thursday, November 22, 2012

Glenn you're probably right, but she likely would have been proactive and tried to get to the bottom of things much like I have. I found if you can't rely on the city or outside organizations to be perfectly honest, you need to shut up, run for office and find out for yourself whats going on. It is a work in progress.

Dale Murrish

5:42 pm on Wednesday, November 21, 2012

Note to conservatives: Be careful what you say on-line, because some will lay sarcastic comments alongside egregious offenses and call them equal. Because both are uncivil, the greater wrong is excused.

It’s amazing what people who are more interested in winning arguments than solving problems will do. Ah well, this is Troy.

Real racist comments (not an abbreviation critical of China’s communist government) like those in the Martin Howrylak hit piece are OK and part of the rough and tumble of politics. “Get a helmet.”

Because it’s OK when applied to the wife of a conservative candidate. Instead, all we get is “they’re from out of town.” They have nothing to do with our little town of Troy.

When a young conservative from Alpena tries to help Mayor Daniels, it’s meddling by someone who is barely old enough to vote. And of course a Troy leader can’t have an interest in national politics or oppose wasteful federal spending offered to our city.

Meanwhile, a “proud Republican” former mayor has many Democrat yard signs planted in her yard. Why? Because the conservative Republicans who win primaries are too radical to support in general elections? The double standard in Troy is absolutely sickening.

Since some people are driven by emotion, hurt feelings are the same as real offenses. The ends justify the means for some on the left.

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Lynn Hodorek

6:48 pm on Wednesday, November 21, 2012

"Why? Because the conservative Republicans who win primaries are too radical to support in general elections?"

...yep. That's exactly it.

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Glenn

7:11 pm on Wednesday, November 21, 2012

Dale writes that, "When a young conservative from Alpena tries to help Mayor Daniels, it’s meddling by someone who is barely old enough to vote."

What would Facebook Dave Henderson's response be to Dale's whining about the unfairness of complaining about outsiders being involved in Troy politics? Let's take a look shall we?

"I think its interesting when people without a horse in the race try to interject themselves into our city politics. Maybe her and her degree should butt out. ... Gotta watch out for those hidden foreign agendas." Dave Henderson October 29, 2010

So there you go Dale. Your fiscal conservative hero, Facebook Dave Henderson says outsiders should butt out of Troy politics.

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Dave Henderson

8:32 am on Thursday, November 22, 2012

I stand firmly by that statement. I don't like people outside Troy influencing or attempting to influence our politics. I don't care if it was Mayor Daniels supporters or the book burning party. I'm not a big fan of the state of Michigan registering in on our elections either, but they did, and we may be headed for a legal battle.

Chris P.

8:21 am on Thursday, November 22, 2012

Dave, as long as you allow yourself to be manipulated by Glenn Clark and Bob Gosselin and string fellow residents along to fall for their antics, there will be no civility. You are clearly with them and supportive of the harm they have caused. Your blog post here rings very hollow as a result.

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Irv Wengrow

9:14 am on Thursday, November 22, 2012

Whether an action is legal or illegal is a decision by a Court and/or jury. One lawyer's "opinion", be it Bluhm or Thomas is just that, an opinion. I would have supported the Resolution were it not the "Final and Binding" provision. That takes it away from a neutral arbiter, the Court and lets the fox decide the hens (turkey)'s fate

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Dave Henderson

2:12 pm on Thursday, November 22, 2012

That resolution was killed before any of us had a chance to make a revision to it. I would have supported removing the binding part of it simply to get a third opinion.

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Irv Wengrow

2:20 pm on Thursday, November 22, 2012

Halftime - so Dave, I did not have the chance to watch or attend, but could you not have offered an Amendment before the vote to remove the binding language?

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Glenn

3:58 pm on Thursday, November 22, 2012

Irv, Dave is either displaying his ignorance of Robert's Rules or simply being dishonest. I watched the entire meeting. He had plenty of time to offer a revision before the vote was taken. Everyone was given an opportunity to speak on the issue and Mayor Slater asked if anyone else had anything to say before he called for the vote. Henderson sat mute. His actions, or inaction, on this matter continue to speak louder than his words.

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Dave Henderson

10:48 pm on Thursday, November 22, 2012

Irv, The attorney made mention initially that she didn't like the binding part of this resolution. It became very clear that 3 members were going to vote this down regardless. Unlike Glenn, i have learned to really read my fellow members of council. All had spoken and were in support of the city attorneys opinion and were vehemently against the resolution. This was DOA, why speak up?

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Daffy Noodnicks

9:37 am on Friday, November 23, 2012

Because it might have made it not quite so DOA.

Sharon

10:00 am on Thursday, November 22, 2012

Right, Irv. Dave, how could you have not at least questioned Fleming's resolution to let the Attorney General give a binding opinion?? I thought you guys were small government, anti-outside control? Were you in on the Gosselin/Clark fix? Or did you simply not understand?

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Wiley Coyote

10:00 am on Thursday, November 22, 2012

Hey Dave, I'll be civil to you and your group at TCU when you stop putting phony proposals on ballots simply to confuse voters trying to save libraries, stop circulating petitions under false banners like "Friends of the Library with no new taxes", stop fighting federal investment in your own city under the pretense that not accepting the money will decrease the federal deficit when you know for a fact it won't, stop defending people who carry signs depicting elected officials with bullet holes and nooses around their necks and covered with disgusting racist language, stop lying to people about non-existent slush funds...I could go on and on.

Deal? We'll be nice if you and your fellow TCU members actually become honest.

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Sharon

10:03 am on Thursday, November 22, 2012

Why are Gosselin/Clark/Henderson and Fleming DYING for a February election? I don't care one way or the other in terms of who is elected, I'd just rather not spend the extra 100 grand. Is it because Fleming wants to be mayor even if it costs taxpayers $100? Seems a few years ago your friend Kempen was dying to do a special election too! What is it about you Troy Citizens United people?

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Dave Henderson

2:13 pm on Thursday, November 22, 2012

Sharon, I'm not dying for an election. I honestly don't care how we proceed as long as it is legal and doesn't end up in a legal battle.

Dale Murrish

11:32 am on Thursday, November 22, 2012

The real battle is whether Ed Kempen or another true conservative will be appointed to the City Council per the November 2011 election results. The three conservatives were OK with any of the three candidates being mayor as long as the power balance on the council was not changed.

We will see whether any of the other three will bow to the voters' wishes or whether they will continue with their quest to change the power balance on City Council.

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Cathy Fucinari

9:55 am on Monday, November 26, 2012

Why does it have to be a true conservative??? Why can't it be an independent??? An independent that both sides would be willing to work with??? Oh, wait. That makes sense and isn't Dale's way!

Randy Husk

11:53 am on Thursday, November 22, 2012

Dale....when will you understand that the Council is a NON partisan body and balance of power has no place in NON partisan governance....you keep yapping about balance of power...how about lets do what is in the best interest of the City of Troy and forget about political ideology that has no place in our good city. I served on the Council for 18 years and never once did anyone that I served with care about balance of power until Bob Gosselin got elected and that is when this whole partisan political mess got started in Troy and it has been downhill ever since...During my time on council there were MANY heated arguments and MANY 4-3 votes but they were never the same 4 or 3 because we all left our ideology in our pockets and truthfully did what we thought was in the best interest of the City and we did our part in making it a City that was envied world wide...Now it is a laughing stock worldwide and political ideology has caused this.

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Wiley Coyote

2:44 pm on Thursday, November 22, 2012

Ed Kempen was the "brains" behind the so-called Friends of the Library with no new taxes" phony attempt to further confuse voters during the Proposal 1 attempt. If he'd ever bothered to actually look at the city budgets, which anyone can do, he would have known it was not possible to fund the library's operation without a dedicated millage.

By that alone, Ed has proved he has no business being involved in city affairs. For Dale to keep pushing for him proves he, Dale, has no sense whatsoever. He's not a true conservative--he's another calculating, willing to go to any lengths to win would-be politician. Troy deserves better than this scurrilous bunch.

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Will Curtis

8:24 pm on Thursday, November 22, 2012

Dave, you're sunk if you keep Dale at your side.

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Dave Henderson

10:52 pm on Thursday, November 22, 2012

Will, you realize this is a blog and all are free to post whether I agree with their positions or not. I'm almost sorry to have spoken up, but the actual topic I began with is a worth while effort, even though some refuse to put differences aside and call that "truce" they were so willing to bring forth after the recall. I'm not playing games here with questioning the opinions of the city attorney or the SoS... I just want someone to make a final determination since there seems to be some question.

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Sue Martin

8:33 am on Friday, November 23, 2012

Dave,
If you think putting differences aside gives you free reign to continue to be disingenuous...you don't understand the term. What's happening here is not an unwillingness to put differences aside and call a truce. What's happening is that you are not being allowed to continue to make spurious and inaccurate claims without challenge. What's happening is that you are not being allowed to deny your former stances on issues without challenge. What's happening here is that you are being asked to claim your very own words without trying to change the context in which they were initially spoken.

You don't get to spend literally years speaking in a terribly uncivil manner and then preach from the pulpit that we must all play nice and NOT expect a challenge. You are a civil guy in person. You lose that civility from behind the keyboard. And while you seem to think it's ok to insult electronically as long as you don't get up in front of the podium and say it...many of us prefer someone who chooses their words in every forum carefully and then stands by them.

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Daffy Noodnicks

9:45 am on Friday, November 23, 2012

Check me if I'm wrong here CM Henderson, but isn't making a final determination the job of the Troy Council? It my understanding that Council is supposed to take the advice of your advisors, and make that final determination which will hopefully be in the best interest of Troy. Abdicating this responsibility, by putting things in the hands of a state official seems like shirking the responsibility for which Council was elected, which is to act in the best interest of the City of Troy.

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Will Curtis

12:32 pm on Sunday, November 25, 2012

Dave, speak up for what you really believe in. Be your own man. To march lockstep with those like Dale... well, like I say, you're sunk.

Glenn

8:30 am on Friday, November 23, 2012

Councilman Henderson, first you claim that you never had a chance to offer a revision on Fleming's binding resolution despite quickly seizing the opportunity to speak up and second the motion. Once you're reminded on what actually happened, you say, "This (the resolution) was DOA, why speak up?" Well, perhaps you speak up because it would have been seen as a reasonable compromise by those you were sure were voting against the original resolution. Perhaps you speak up because, even if the resolution was destined to be defeated, your offer of revision would have allayed some of the public suspicions that you are now facing regarding your true motivations and involvement in all of this. Perhaps you speak up because it would have been the right thing to do, instead of meekly bowing your head and lamenting being outnumbered. You protest being called a follower, but appear incapable of leading.

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Glenn

8:45 am on Friday, November 23, 2012

One other point before I go out to brave the holiday crowds, Dave. You relate the story of once being fired for, among other reasons, "trying to please to many people" as if it's a badge of honor. But nobody gets fired for being too nice, too polite or too customer friendly. On the other hand, I've seen plenty of people get fired for being a sycophant. For being so intent on gaining favor that they fail to display an ability to do what is right. Perhaps, in light of your current reputation of being nothing more than a reliable Daniels/Fleming toady, you might reevaluate that cited reason for termination. Just maybe your former employer was not referring to a tendency on your part to be too civil, but rather a lack of ability on your part to display a backbone.

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Dale Murrish

10:32 am on Friday, November 23, 2012

Glenn, what gives you the right to question why someone was fired from a job? Why don't you handle your own issues?

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Glenn

11:31 am on Friday, November 23, 2012

Dale, he wrote that, "I honestly was fired from a job in my early 20's, and one of the reasons on the release document... "tries to please too many people", and used this as proof that he is, and always was, such a civil guy. In light of his current situation and approximately two years of uncivil comments authored by him, I offered an alternative explanation for the facts that he presented. I seem to recall a local, up and coming, young blogger by the name of Dale Murrish who is constantly claiming that one set of facts can yield two polar opposite, yet equally valid interpretations. A difference of opinion if you will.

By the way, nobody forced a guy with a penchant for throwing rocks from behind a tree to pen an article about how everybody else in town should put down the rocks. If he didn't expect some push-back on this given his history he might be a little too naive for public service.

Paul

2:13 pm on Friday, November 23, 2012

Why do the Tea Party guys always say they are a husband, a father, etc? Seriously. Is that something that is taught at their training sessions. Does Bob Gosselin say I'm a husband, father, prostitute lover?

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Cathy Fucinari

9:57 am on Monday, November 26, 2012

what a about delinquent tax payer? There is sooooo much more about Gosselin that says he's not a good choice for Troy politics. I should think the self-professed Christians should get on board with that. How MANY commandments has this man broken?

Dale Murrish

3:41 pm on Friday, November 23, 2012

Glenn, you didn't answer my question, so let me rephrase it. Why don't you deal with your OWN issues instead of offering free psychoanalysis to others you do not know while maligning their reputation, implying they are dishonest.

Your quoting my statement back to me only proves my point. Honest people can disagree on political issues, drawing opposite conclusions from the same set of facts.

Since you won't answer the question, I can only conclude that you are more interested in throwing honest insults than engaging in constructive dialogue to solve problems.

The same goes for your friends. Tend to your own backyard before throwing rocks at others. Or run for office yourself and see how many votes you get.

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Glenn

5:03 pm on Friday, November 23, 2012

I believe I did answer your question Dale. If you can't discern that from my previous response than I'll try a different approach. I think Mr. Henderson is being disingenuous in his current statements based on his past statements. In addition, I believe that one can draw some conclusions about the cause of his behavior based on some of the information he shared above. I have offered documented evidence to support my position. As an elected official in the City of Troy, Mr. Henderson's public behavior, decisions and conduct is my business/issue.

As far as your position that I should not offer "free psychoanalysis to others" I will refer you back to a previous post of your own. As recently as November 16, 2012 you wrote this about Mayor Slater, "In my opinion, Mayor Slater was minimizing the complaint, while agreeing with it. As a former policeman, he’s probably calloused from hearing people lie."

Hmm, calloused from hearing people lie? Now I don't know about you Dr. Freud, but that last sentence seems suspiciously like free psychoanalysis to me. So maybe you should un-bunch your panties Dale since we both appear to be playing the same game. Better yet I'll make you a deal. If you agree to stop subjecting people to your opinion on the Patch, I will be more than happy to stop subjecting people to mine. If you care to agree to this proposition, I am prepared to throw in front row seats to the parade that Patch readers will undoubtedly throw in my honor.

Wiley Coyote

7:01 pm on Friday, November 23, 2012

It's almost comical how the TCU crowd, Mr. Murrish most definitely included, as well our bestest buddy and big toe Dave Henderson have been tossing insults for years and when people finally give them a taste of their own medicine, like schoolyard bullies who get punched in the nose, they retreat and yell "no fair" from behind their respective trees.

Dave, you're not in the relatively sheltered confines of Keep Troy Strong here. Put it out there and you're going to get called on it. And Dale, man, how much dishonesty and deceit does it take from your friends Gosselin, Clark, Daniels and Howrylak before you, a self-professed and proud "Christian" decide that their behavior doesn't line up with "What would Jesus do?"

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wlarue

10:08 pm on Friday, November 23, 2012

I for one agree with the position that our city's attorney has given on the special elecrtion and beleive her advise is correct. Unlike Councilman Henderson I have faced many lawsuits and never lost. The reason, I listen to the advise of my attorney. The letter received by the city was from a non-legal person who was giving legal advise or opinion on a subject he may have been aquainted with or may not have been aquainted since not all city charters are equal. I for one thank Mayor Slater for his stance and thank attorney Blum for her good advice and I beleive that Councilman Fleming owes our city's attorney an apology for trying to belittle her in front of the camera and his friends. It appears that to often that Council has come of the opinion that if they are unhappy with the advice or information from a city employees, they feel the right to tounge lash and disparigae the employee for no good reason. It is time the council becomes a kinder and more bussiness like council and recognize that the city employees not only work for them individually but work for all citzens of this city.

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Chris P.

6:05 pm on Sunday, November 25, 2012

Mr. Henderson, your comments here on the millage requests completely mystify me. Many of us understand now that the tax fighting group you claim you were a mouthpiece for was clueless. (By the way, to suggest that those same people weren't obnoxious for several years as they all but owned the council microphone attacking the mayor and council members, is ludicrous.) It is clear to me that the TCU you spoke for was wrong over and over again. Do you not recall this fact from the Budget Study Sessions? http://troy.patch.com/articles/5-year-budget-shows-troy-bankrupt-in-2017

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Ellen Hodorek

7:50 am on Monday, November 26, 2012

wlarue: So well said. Thank you.

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