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The Scales Have Tipped - Laura Hollis Opinion

A friend sent me this opinion piece by Notre Dame Law Professor Laura Hollis. A former writer for the Detroit News, she is now the Director of Entrepreneurial Studies at the University of Notre Dame.

I might have chosen softer words, but agree completely with her assessment of a divided America. She said it better than I could, so I'll print it verbatim.

In a future blog post, I'll offer some suggestions for blocking the current administration's plans over the next four years until conservatives can be elected. Michigan is on the right track for a recovery from a ten year depression, and it's not too late for America.

Written vs. Living Constitution - A Better Way Forward

The main strategy should be to weigh all proposals and actions against America's written Constitution, contrasting it with the Living Constitution that the current administration believes in.

America will have a deeper hole to dig out of beginning in 2016, but it can be done with patience and mid-term election gains of people to Congress who respect the Constitution in 2014.

Another key will be to convince Americans to try conservative principles, which are better for all segments of society and actually work, rather than causing more problems.

Professor Hollis addresses some of these societal problems, which have been made worse by our government starting with the Great Society in the 1960s.

 

"The Scales Have Tipped" by Laura Hollis, Nov 08, 2012
 
I am already reading so many pundits and other talking heads analyzing the disaster that was this year's elections. I am adding my own ten cents. Here goes:
 
1. We are outnumbered. We accurately foresaw the enthusiasm, the passion, the commitment, the determination, and the turnout. Married women, men,  independents, Catholics, evangelicals - they all went for Romney in  percentages as high or higher than the groups which voted for McCain in  2008. It wasn't enough.

What we saw in the election on Tuesday was a tipping  point: we are now at a place where there are legitimately fewer Americans who desire a free republic with a free people than there are those who think the government should give them stuff.

There are fewer of us who believe in the value of free exchange and free enterprise. There are fewer of us who do not wish to demonize successful people in order to justify taking from them. We are outnumbered. For the moment. It's just that simple.
 
2. It wasn't the candidate(s). Some are already saying, "Romney was the wrong guy"; "He should have picked Marco Rubio to get Florida/Rob Portman to get Ohio/Chris Christie to get [someplace else]." With all due respect, these assessments are incorrect. Romney ran a strategic and well-organized campaign.

Yes, he could have hit harder on Benghazi. But for those who would have loved that, there are those who would have found it distasteful. No matter what tactic you could point to that Romney could have done better, it would have been spun in a way that was detrimental to his chances.

Romney would have been an excellent president, and Ryan was an inspired choice. No matter who we ran this year, they would have lost. See #1, above.
 
3. It's the culture, stupid. We have been trying to fight this battle every four years at the voting booth. It is long past time we admit that is not where the battle really is.

We abdicated control of the culture - starting back in the 1960s. And now our largest primary social institutions - education, the media, Hollywood (entertainment) have become really nothing more than an assembly line for cranking out reliable little Leftists. 

Furthermore, we have allowed the government to undermine the institutions that instill good character - marriage, the family, communities, schools, our churches. So, here we are, at least two full generations later - we are reaping what we have sown.

It took nearly fifty years to get here; it will take another fifty years to get back. But it starts with the determination to reclaim education, the media, and the entertainment business. If we fail to do that, we can kiss every election goodbye from here on out. And much more.
 
4. America has become a nation of adolescents. The real loser in this election was adulthood: Maturity. Responsibility. The understanding that liberty must be accompanied by self-restraint.

Obama is a spoiled child, and the behavior and language of his followers and their advertisements throughout the campaign makes it clear how many of them are, as well.

Romney is a grown-up. Romney should have won. Those of us who expected him to win assumed that voters would act like grownups. Because if we were a nation of grownups, he would have won.
 
But what did win? Sex. Drugs. Bad language. Bad manners. Vulgarity. Lies. Cheating. Name-calling. Finger-pointing. Blaming. And irresponsible spending. This does not bode well.

People grow up one of two ways: either they choose to, or circumstances force them to. The warnings are all there, whether it is the looming economic disaster, or the inability of the government to respond to crises like Hurricane Sandy, or the growing strength and brazenness of our enemies.

American voters stick their fingers in their ears and say, "Lalalalalala, I can't hear you." It is unpleasant to think about the circumstances it will take to force Americans to grow up. It is even more unpleasant to think about Obama at the helm when those circumstances arrive.
 
5. Yes, there is apparently a Vagina Vote. It's the subject matter of another column in its entirety to point out, one by one, all of the inconsistencies and hypocrisies of the Democrats this year.

Suffice it to say that the only "war on women" was the one waged by the Obama campaign, which sexualized and objectified women, featuring them dressed up like vulvas at the Democrat National Convention, appealing to their "lady parts," comparing voting to losing your virginity with Obama, trumpeting the thrills of destroying our children in the womb (and using our daughters in commercials to do so), and making Catholics pay for their birth control.

For a significant number of women, this was appealing. It might call into question the wisdom of the Nineteenth Amendment, but for the fact that large numbers of women (largely married) used their "lady smarts" instead. Either way, Susan B. Anthony and Elizabeth Cady Stanton are rolling over in their graves.
 
6. It's not about giving up on "social issues." No Republican candidate should participate in a debate or go out on the stump without thorough debate prep and a complete set of talking points that they stick to.

This should start with a good grounding in biology and a reluctance to purport to know the will of God. (Thank you, Todd and Richard.) That said, we do not hold the values we do because they garner votes.

We hold the values we do because we believe that they are time-tested principles without which a civilized, free and prosperous society is not possible.
 
We defend the unborn because we understand that a society which views some lives as expendable is capable of viewing all lives as expendable. 
 
We defend family - mothers, fathers, marriage, children - because history makes it quite clear that societies without intact families quickly descend into anarchy and barbarism, and we have plenty of proof of that in our inner cities where marriage is infrequent and unwed motherhood approaches 80 percent.

When Roe v. Wade was decided in 1973, many thought that the abortion cause was lost. Forty years later, ultrasound technology has demonstrated the inevitable connection between science and morality. More Americans than ever define themselves as "pro-life."

What is tragic is that tens of millions of children have lost their lives while Americans figure out what should have been obvious before. There is no "giving up" on social issues. There is only the realization that we have to fight the battle on other fronts. The truth will win out in the end.
 
7. Obama does not have a mandate. And he does not need one. I have to laugh - bitterly - when I read conservative pundits trying to assure us that Obama "has to know" that he does not have a mandate, and so he will have to govern from the middle.

I don't know what they're smoking. Obama does not care that he does not have a mandate. He does not view himself as being elected (much less re-elected) to represent individuals. He views himself as having been re-elected to complete the "fundamental transformation" of America , the basic structure of which he despises.

Expect much more of the same - largely the complete disregard of the will of half the American public, his willingness to rule by executive order, and the utter inability of another divided Congress to rein him in. Stanley Kurtz has it all laid out here.  

8. The Corrupt Media - is the enemy too strong? I don't think so. I have been watching the media try to throw elections since at least the early 1990s. In 2008 and again this year, we saw the media cravenly cover up for the incompetence and deceit of this President, while demonizing a good, honorable and decent man with lies and smears.

This is on top of the daily barrage of insults that conservatives (and by that I mean the electorate, not the politicians) must endure at the hands of this arrogant bunch of elitist snobs. Bias is one thing. What we observed with Benghazi was professional malpractice and fraud. They need to go.

Republicans, Libertarians and other conservatives need to be prepared to play hardball with the Pravda press from here on out. And while we are at it, to defend those journalists of whatever political stripe (Jake Tapper, Sharyl Atkisson, Eli Lake) who actually do their jobs. As well as Fox News and talk radio. Because you can fully expect a re-elected Obama to try to reinstate the Fairness Doctrine in term 2.
 
9. Small business and entrepreneurs will be hurt the worst. For all the blather about "Wall Street versus Main Street," Obama's statist agenda will unquestionably benefit the biggest corporations which - as with the public sector unions - are in the best position to make campaign donations, hire lobbyists, and get special exemptions carved out from Obama's health care laws, his environmental regulations, his labor laws.

It will be the small business, the entrepreneur, and the first-time innovators who will be crushed by their inability to compete on a level playing field.

10. America is more polarized than ever; and this time it's personal. I've been following politics for a long time, and it feels different this time. Not just for me. I've received messages from other conservatives who are saying the same thing: there is little to no tolerance left out there for those who are bringing this country to its knees - even when they have been our friends.

It isn't just about "my guy" versus "your guy." It is my view of America versus your view of America - a crippled, hemorrhaging, debt-laden, weakened and dependent America that I want no part of and resent being foisted on me.

I no longer have any patience for stupidity, blindness, or vulgarity, so with each dumb "tweet" or FB post by one of my happily lefty comrades, another one bites the dust, for me. Delete.

What does this portend for a divided Congress? I expect that Republicans will be demoralized and chastened for a short time. But I see them in a bad position. Americans in general want Congress to work together. But many do not want Obama's policies, and so Republicans who support them will be toast. Good luck, guys.  

11. It's possible that America just has to hit rock bottom. I truly believe that most Americans who voted for Obama have no idea what they are in for. Most simply believe him when he says that all he really wants is for the rich to pay "a little bit more." So reasonable! Who could argue with that except a greedy racist?

America is on a horrific bender. Has been for some time now. The warning signs of our fiscal profligacy and culture of lack of personal responsibility are everywhere - too many to mention. We need only look at other countries which have gone the route we are walking now to see what is in store.
 
For the past four years - but certainly within the past campaign season - we have tried to warn Americans. Too many refuse to listen, even when all of the events that have transpired during Obama's presidency - unemployment, economic stagnation, skyrocketing prices, the depression of the dollar, the collapse of foreign policy, Benghazi, hopelessly inept responses to natural disasters - can be tied directly to Obama's statist philosophies, and his decisions.
 
What that means, I fear, is that they will not see what is coming until the whole thing collapses. That is what makes me so sad today. I see the country I love headed toward its own "rock bottom," and I cannot seem to reach those who are taking it there.

Laura Hirschfeld Hollis is:  

Current: Associate Professional Specialist and Concurrent Associate Professor of Law at University of Notre Dame.

Past: Director at Gigot Center for Entrepreneurial Studies, Associate Director and Clinical Professor at University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign.

Education: University of Notre Dame Law School , University of Notre Dame.

Summary: She has 20+ years' experience in curriculum and other program development and delivery.

Bob Cornwall

5:01 pm on Saturday, February 2, 2013

Dale,

You have basically labelled everyone who didn't vote for Romney as freeloaders and un-American. Do I dare raise the fact that while Romney won white voters, he lost minority voters by huge numbers and young people as well. If you want an America that reflects what some think the 1950s looked like (and I like Leave it to Beaver), yes that's gone away.

I would call this offensive, but then you'd just say I'm a liberal (and apparently among many in America, to be Liberal is a bad thing-- and thus un-American). So, I'll just let this stand.

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Dale Murrish

6:29 pm on Sunday, February 3, 2013

Pastor Bob, I realize not everyone shares my conservative economic views. Free market capitalism is the best system yet devised for generating wealth for everyone. Democratic socialism has a poor track record, and communism is abysmal.

My heart breaks for those who have traditional moral values and support liberal economic policies. Each election they must choose between divided loyalties. Many of the minorities you refer to make this choice each election. Assuming minorities automatically vote liberal on all issues is simplistic. The Democratic party has marginalized pro-life Democrats and gone steadily left on economic issues.

The two great moral issues of our day are under attack: the sanctity of human life and the sanctity of marriage. That was the main point of Professor Hollis’ opinion column (point 10). And the freedom of conscience is no longer respected.

http://troy.patch.com/blog_posts/freedom-of-conscience-the-foundational-freedom

Voting is simple for you and me. Your progressive economic and social views coincide and my traditional moral values and libertarian economic views make my choices easy. For pro-life Catholics who may favor universal health care it is not so simple.

Christians, Muslims, agnostics, and others who understand biology and value human life are now forced to pay for abortifacient drugs against their conscience. This is tyranny with a velvet glove, all for the “common good.”

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Daffy Noodnicks

7:58 pm on Sunday, February 3, 2013

How flat out Ignorant and offensive: if you disagree with Dale you are against free markets and for socialism and communism.

Daffy Noodnicks

5:39 pm on Saturday, February 2, 2013

What an enormous load of offensive nonsense. Thanks Dale, how incredibly not surprising for you to bring this forward.

patronizing, paternalistic, fact denying mountain of sour grapes would be another way to put it. I expected to hear "get off my lawn you kids" in there somewhere. Dale, you continue to exceed expectations.

cookiepro2

2:45 pm on Sunday, February 3, 2013

http://www.dailykos.com/story/2012/12/29/1174695/-Open-letter-to-Professor-Laura-Hollis-This-is-why-you-lost

Dale,
I'm disappointed. I thought you were going to stay away from the political and concentrate on Bible studies.

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Dale Murrish

6:33 pm on Sunday, February 3, 2013

"So watch for more articles about my illness and the Bible translation in the midst of articles about politics, history and travel."

Some people object to my Bible translation too. I'm glad you liked it. To please everyone on the Patch, I have to be quiet. But that would be unfair to those who read and do not comment. Some have sought me out to thank me in person.

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Daffy Noodnicks

6:52 pm on Sunday, February 3, 2013

Dale: it wasn't so much your translation. I could care less about your translation of a translation of a translation. When you commented on other stuff that was outside the topic, and showed offensive ignorance that's where I had an issue. That was not in the text of your translation, that was in your comments.

cookiepro2

3:51 pm on Sunday, February 3, 2013

Just a clarification on Laura Hollis's professional background at Notre Dame. She is not a tenured professor, nor a professor of law at Notre Dame. She had an 18-mo stint as director of entrepenerial studies at ND but since Jan 2012 no longer holds that position. She is currently listed as an "associate professional specialist" in ND's accounting school.

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Daffy Noodnicks

4:14 pm on Sunday, February 3, 2013

Cookie:

Thank you for muddying the issue with actual facts. It is fatiging, isnt it? I'm sure Dale will ignore them, because he will find them inconvenient, no matter how true. I have lots of friends and family of many political and religious persuasions whom I love and whose opinions I respect on many issues. I feel Dales attitude is a great example of why all the tea publicans did so poorly in the last election. They seem to have no catharsis or self awareness. Every wrong or failure is somebody else's fault.

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Dale Murrish

6:34 pm on Sunday, February 3, 2013

Thanks for the correction on Professor Hollis’ current job and for the alternate view – there are many opinions about the best way to do things in our country. In my opinion, a blogger on the left-wing Daily Kos has less credibility than a Notre Dame professor. Having room for all views is what makes America great.

My main point is the disdain shown by Democrats for those with opposing views. Joe Biden in the VP debate with Paul Ryan is a prime example.

http://troy.patch.com/blog_posts/joe-the-scoffer-vs-paul-the-planner

I was sick to my stomach when the Obamacare mandate took effect on August 1, the same day as Chick-fil-A Appreciation Day. Because there really are people who have moral objections to paying for the abortions of others, and mandatory insurance coverage for abortifacients is just that.

http://troy.patch.com/blog_posts/chicago-and-boston-mayors-attack-chick-fil-a

We’re not claiming we have all the answers, especially on economic issues, which are debatable. It’s not narcissistic at all to stand on Biblical principles (the Word of God) on moral issues like the sanctity of innocent human life. It’s narcissistic to ignore His principles and for ministers to teach against them is beyond the pale.

Forcing others to violate their conscience on sincere beliefs that harm no one “for the common good” is tyranny.

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Daffy Noodnicks

7:02 pm on Sunday, February 3, 2013

So amazingly typical of Dale. He dismisses the source of an article, so it can't possibly be valid: the very essence of an ad hominem attack. The reply cited is extremely detailed and factual, but never mind. Never mind the sources he cites that are basically known for telling right wing fundamentalists what they would like to hear. Facts aren't important if they interfere with Dales dogma. Of course everyone is either conservative (good follower of God and all things holy) or a liberal (anyone who doesn't believe what he does and therefore unGodly, evil, wrong, wrong, wrong).It is a juvenile and simplistic view of the world, but it seems to make him happy. Perhaps that all he can handle.

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Daffy Noodnicks

7:17 pm on Sunday, February 3, 2013

Most people in the world aren't on the extreme right wing (like Dale) or extreme left (who Dale illogically assumes is everyone who doesn't believe what he believes). The world is not black or white: it's grey and most people are rational and realize this.

Wiley Coyote

7:28 pm on Sunday, February 3, 2013

Gosh darn it, how is it possible that Mitt Romney, that pillar of honesty and religious freedom didn't win that election against that pesky Obama character? I mean all he did was refuse to release ten years of tax returns that would have shown how many millions of dollars he's sheltering offshore, call 47% of Americans freeloaders and change positions on major issues more often than an insomniac on a bad mattress.

Dale, you have become so pathetic, it's almost no fun to reply to your tripe anymore. It really is time for the Patch to re-examine your status as a blogger.

Mom

7:47 pm on Sunday, February 3, 2013

Seriously, Dale you are a slave to your prejudices and biases. This is really ridiculous, "The real loser in this election was adulthood: Maturity. Responsibility. The understanding that liberty must be accompanied by self-restraint." Excuse me, but the two Democratic voters in this house (one a former Rep voter who can't stomach the party any longer) have both worked since our early teen years, We excelled in college, worked 2 jobs in our early career, have military experience, contribute time and money to many charities, and live a debt free life. There are many successful, hard working people, with money, who vote for the greater good and not what is in the best interest of our pocket books. There are plenty of successful people who think beyond themselves and have moved to or have always been with the Dem party. To say those Republican/Teapartiers who consistently whine about paying taxes, ask everyone else to cover their fair share, wonder why those who paid their way thru college "get all the breaks", threaten to overthrow our Government, continually discredit the military by claiming they will turn on their own .. . they are the adults? I think you need to meet people beyond the bubble you live in.

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Ronald Wolf

12:56 am on Monday, February 4, 2013

Mom, did you see the life of Henry Ford on PBS, the salt of the earth, the working man;s hero. See how he ended? How he treated Edsel? Someone hit the nail on the head regarding the close relationship between money and evil. Its even mentioned in one of the ten commandments regarding coveting. Ford died blaming Jews, and feeling guilt for not recognizing his son's accomplishments and love for him knowing he contributed to Edsel's demise from stress ulcers turning to cancer.

Ronald Wolf

12:15 am on Monday, February 4, 2013

YAAAAAAH! Romney never had credibility, he's in another world, He probably could not tell you whose picture is on a dollar bill. His bankers have pristine white sand in their shoes and dine on the best Swiss Chocolates and Cheeses.
I still would have voted him if he was not so consistant in his non-constitancy. Obama and Henry Ford, and Chamberlain would have made great allies in foreign affairs. He picked up where Bush left off in kissing Saudi behinds. Where will he and his family be when the missles fly, or NYC goes up in a mushroom cloud from a container shipped nuke set off by a cell phone? Probably in AF 1 circling the ashes.

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Dale Murrish

5:46 pm on Monday, February 4, 2013

I agree with most of what you wrote, Ronald, although I would sometimes draw different conclusions. The facts you cited are all true (Hindu Kush, etc.). You should consider blogging yourself.

I oppose all religious bigotry the same as you; the Jews in particular have had a long history of great accomplishment (more Nobel prizes per capita than any other group) and people persecuting them, so I understand your perspective.
People are a mix of good and evil, even the best of us. I prefer to focus on the positive things people have done (while not ignoring the negatives), rather than dwell on the negatives.

It’s true that Henry Ford had anti-Semitic views, but his innovations also brought the $5/day wage and made cars affordable for millions of people, lifting their standard of living. Greenfield Village is southeast Michigan’s top-rated tourist attraction and celebrates entrepreneurship, inventions and innovation.

Ronald Wolf

12:30 am on Monday, February 4, 2013

One other point. I cancelled my AARP over this. Both Democrat and Republican fossils who fuel this lobby do not recognize social security as a safety net. To these selfish old crones reminiscent of Matty Maroun who thinks he can take it with him Social Security is an entitlement that they should have because they paid into it despite assets such as, two or more vacation and golden parachutes. Platinum in the case of John Engler. Who says the aristocracies were overthrown?
Instead the wealthy and their progeny all want to take medicaid and bridge cards from those that fall between the cracks, including veterans on disability. Selfish $OB's!!!!!!

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Ronald Wolf

12:43 am on Monday, February 4, 2013

correct, re: " vacation", mean't to say "vacation homes".eg Time shares, Florida condos (snowbirds). Frequent flyers, VIP's, all the new "nobility" that we dote on in soap operas, and PBS. Where does all this Social Securtiy go, check those who sit for hours at the slot machines in Casinos.

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Dale Murrish

5:47 pm on Monday, February 4, 2013

No love lost for Matty Maroun either – he has used his monopoly to line his pockets, not serve his customers. Not all wealthy people are greedy, but some are. The Millionaire Next Door book testifies to that.

http://troy.patch.com/blog_posts/a-guide-to-ballot-proposals-4-5-6

Money is neutral. Having a lot or a little of it does not make you virtuous.

I also oppose the idea of retiring to amuse yourself, gambling, particularly lotteries, and won’t be joining AARP.

Dave W

2:39 pm on Monday, February 4, 2013

Dale, after reading this opinion piece, it’s pretty clear to me that divisiveness in America is based on this rigid adherence to ideology. I do consider myself a “liberal” (based on your definition anyway), but I will always listen to the policy proposals from both sides and listen to their basis. The problem for me when hearing “conservative viewpoints” is that they almost always conflict with their own ideology or simple facts; which is why I don’t tend to side with them. When challenged with this, conservatives turn to demonization, fear, and distrust as Laura Hollis does here. I’ll go through her points 1-by-1:
1. She thinks anyone that didn’t vote for Romney doesn’t “desire a free republic with a free people” and that they “think the government should give them stuff”, that they don’t “believe in the value of free exchange and free enterprise” and “wish to demonize successful people in order to justify taking from them.” She can’t explain why Romney lost by 5 million votes, so demonizes all those who voted against him. I would say those that didn’t vote for Romney desire a government that stays out of our personal lives, that keeps its promise to the seniors and veterans that paid into the social programs, and that those who have done so well on the back of the American consumer reinvest in their country.

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Dave W

2:39 pm on Monday, February 4, 2013

2. She doesn’t think the candidate would have mattered. I disagree and think if he hadn’t taken the hard right stance on social issues he might have had a much better chance. That tells me it’s not the “takers” aka seniors, veterans, and children in America that cost him the election, it was his policy stances.
3. She blames the government for undermining “the institutions that instill good character – marriage, the family, communities, schools, our churches.” You mean like expanding marriage to interracial couples in 1967? Like teaching science and history in classrooms? Really? What has the government done to “undermine” these things? This is where conservative “personal responsibility” comes into play and conflicts with this claim. I thought it was up to parents to instill good values in their children, not the government? It is up to the individual to respect their marriage, family, community, and church, and instill their children with these values; not the schools or the government. I was raised in the Catholic church, going every Sunday, was taught to treat others as I would like to be treated, that marriage was a sacred thing not to be entered lightly, and that the greatest thing in life is love. I believe a bigger portion of America believes in my basic values, but also don’t think we need to go back to the 1950s to live them.

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Dave W

2:40 pm on Monday, February 4, 2013

4. All Laura has done in the above points is deflect, insult, demean, and distort. There really is nothing concrete here and I see her as the adolescent here.
5. It really is astounding that she thinks the “war on women” is waged by Democrats. The DNC example she raised is a question of taste, not a denial of rights. As far as Catholics, when 89% of catholic women take birth control, I struggle to see the objection. Who has voted against the Violence Against Women Act? Republicans. Who wants to legislate what a women does with her body? Republicans. And then to call the 19th Amendment into question? Stunning. Who has supported equal pay for equal work? Democrats. Who defends a women’s right to make their own health decisions? Democrats.
6. If Republicans want to keep fighting social issues, they will become extinct. I believe more Americans may define themselves as “pro-life”, but that depends on how you define pro-life. I would also say that being “pro-choice” does not make you anti-life as social conservatives believe. I would describe myself as pro-life, because I do believe that a women should make every effort to keep the baby. However, I would not legislate that they be required to keep the baby.

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Dave W

2:40 pm on Monday, February 4, 2013

If the pregnancy will harm the women’s life, or if it is the product of a rape, or may not have any support once born, then it is up to the individual to make their own medical decision. I’m not willing to pay to raise all of those children, so why should I have a say in whether or not they are born? The conservative view doesn’t seem to support the children after they are born and definitely conflicts with the “small government” ideology.
7. Obama won by about 5 million votes. Seems a little like a mandate….
8. The corrupt media? What is the most prevalent news station in the country? Fox News, and I think we all know where Fox News stands. As for the other media outlets, they seem to have a better fact check rate. No matter where you get your news, you should always do a little fact checking yourself. What’s dangerous is that people rely on the media to teach them, rather than taking the stories the media provides and following up on the facts/figures presented.
9. I think if we examine policies, particularly tax policies, we’ll see that Republicans are far more friendly to the biggest corporations that the Democrats (however, I don’t think they are all that clean either). One of the biggest examples would be continuing billion dollar tax breaks for oil companies. I think this flawed policy has a bigger effect on the economy than the Affordable Health Care Law.

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Dave W

2:41 pm on Monday, February 4, 2013

10. We’re polarized because of vitriolic opinion pieces like Laura’s.
11. Rock bottom? Does she remember 2007-2008? Does she remember the stock market crashing and 401ks disappearing? Does she remember Hurricane Katrina? I think President Obama has been pretty strong on Foreign Policy, even according to the former Bush administration. This is just more vitriol with no basis in fact. It seems to me that the stock market has fully recovered, home prices are rising, companies are making record profits, we’ve ended 1 war and are winding down another after 10 years, and we’re moving forward as a country.
Dale, the recurring theme in her opinion piece, along with most of your posts, is the legislation of morality. For some reason you want the government to legislate personal responsibility instead of advocating for people to take responsibility for their own lives. Conservatives are losing America because they argue for smaller government that stays out of our lives, but then advocate for the legislation of their moral code. The youth of this country have access to multiple sources of information and are able to look at the facts. They can look at history and current events and see which movement advocates for big government that wants to restrict rights (marriage, voting, immigration, medical) and those who advocate for right size government that takes care of our national defense and infrastructure, while also allowing everyone to enjoy the same rights.

Ferndale_1986

2:55 pm on Monday, February 4, 2013

Ferndale is a political freak show.

Dale Murrish

5:49 pm on Monday, February 4, 2013

Mom - I’m friends with several people who voted for President Obama and know many others who did. Most people who voted for the President work hard.

Romney was my preferred candidate in 2008, my second choice in 2012. Rick Santorum did way better than anyone expected and had support with Reagan Democrats, despite the negative coverage he received for his conservative religious beliefs.

The media preferred Romney in the primaries and then continued their brazen cheerleading for Obama in the general election.

In 2016 the country will be another >$4T further in debt and our written Constitution will be further weakened; maybe Americans will be ready to consider a conservative like Marco Rubio with Paul Ryan as Vice President.

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Mom

8:50 pm on Friday, February 8, 2013

Dale- Maybe you need to go back and read what your wrote about in the original piece (those who voted for Obama are not adults and do not know restraint) and then your comment about that most people who voted for the President work hard. Which is it? What I get a strong sense of is that you think that anyone who voted for the President is a taker. Quite the contrary, we are big givers- in terms of time and money. At one time, during college, I was part of those 47% that Romney called deadbeats - I was working full time at a minimum wage job paying my way thru college, so when I did my tax returns I got money back. So even though I was going to school full time and working full time, people with your point of view consider that situation all that is wrong with American - how backwards and upside down this country has become. BTW, the Constitution is not being weakened, however there are plenty of people trying to deny certain groups their rights under it.

Lianne Mathie

6:09 pm on Monday, February 4, 2013

Whaaaaaaaa, biggest knee slapper today.

I can only hope Dale is right, because the Dems will be in again in 2016,lol

Inner Voice

9:04 pm on Monday, February 4, 2013

Keep this rhetoric up and the Democrats have it made. Thanks Dale. This is a great piece on why the Republicans didn't win the election, in your warped view of the world. The Republican party is ripping itself apart. Yippee.

THEODORE GIBSON

10:29 pm on Monday, February 4, 2013

Dale W - everything you said is well-spoken and exactly what I would say if I were more eloquent and less lazy. Thank you for providing a voice of reason, fall on deaf ears, though it may.

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Dale Murrish

5:35 pm on Tuesday, February 5, 2013

Far out – talk about left wing bias throughout the article. Dripping with sarcasm, generous use of agenda, so-called etc. and quotation marks to show disrespect. All in all a one-sided point of view with much innuendo and little data.

I’d not read anything from Mother Jones before. I missed them in my media bias piece. If you’re reading that regularly, it’s not surprising why you think the mainstream media is neutral.

http://troy.patch.com/blog_posts/media-bias-deliberate-and-unintentional

Why didn’t someone ask him what he meant by the statement? It might have been quite innocent. Stuff is blown out of proportion both ways. There’s plenty of real racism going the other way from the Left, too, just ignored by most media folks and denied by your side.

What’s wrong with giving parents and students a choice? Why does the MEA block charter schools? This biased article admits why: because charter schools hire non-union teachers. Let’s free the hostages in our dangerous, failing urban schools, not block the exits.

Your point is well taken, though. Conservatives need to be more careful about their messaging, because the Left ruthlessly twists careless statements into pretzels. Both sides do it, but the Left has most of the news media on their side which gives them a pass when they do it routinely.

http://troy.patch.com/blog_posts/a-guide-to-the-newspapers

Lianne Mathie

5:51 pm on Tuesday, February 5, 2013

Hey Dale,
It didn't come out of my mouth. This is your teaparty, you own it, not me. This is why the right will keep losing. They have no grip on reality and propping Marco Rubio as the savior of the party is still not going to be enough to make these biased idiots from the teaparty change their ways or get the Latino and minority vote.By the way, I'm a Independent.
Oh, and pot meet kettle, lets talk about the far out right wing propaganda that you post on a daily basis. Your hypocrisy is legend on the Patch.

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John W.

6:38 pm on Tuesday, February 5, 2013

"By the way, I'm a Independent" - Lianne Mathie .............kneeslapper of the day!!

Lianne, I'm a true Independent. I've keep my mouth shut reading the vitriolic rhetoric on here coming from both the right and the left. Frankly, that is why I'm an Independent because of the bitter partisan divide that prevents this country from moving forward.

I've read your comments, and they tend to be just as nasty and partisan as Dale's.

Please, please, put a cork in it! (both of you)

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Lianne Mathie

7:09 pm on Tuesday, February 5, 2013

Hey John,
I can have a very real difference of opinion with what Dale says, but I do it with my full name.I will will challenge bigoted opinions and I will use my real name. So, indeed, put a cork in it Mr. Smoothy.

John David

6:44 pm on Tuesday, February 5, 2013

Hollis said this in the opinion Dale posted:
"Susan B. Anthony and Elizabeth Cady Stanton are rolling over in their graves." I think that it is a pretty funny comment, given these quotes from both women. I don't think they are rolling in their graves about how women voted, and I think Dale would disapprove of their opinions about conservatives and the church, even though they lived in the 19th century:

http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/authors/s/susan_b_anthony.html

http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/authors/e/elizabeth_cady_stanton.html

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cookiepro2

9:09 pm on Tuesday, February 5, 2013

John David,
Thanks for the links. This one from Susan B Anthony especially seemed timely:

"If all the rich and all of the church people should send their children to the public schools they would feel bound to concentrate their money on improving these schools until they met the highest ideals."

Yes, we're moving into the 21st century and want to use technology to explore new ways of learning (e.g., online classrooms), give more choice in schools and reduce costs at the same time. But we tread this road at our own peril, public schools have had a huge role in building the middle class and given new immigrants the tools to succeed in our society. Why divert our tax dollars to building up charter schools and developing a voucher system, when we should be maintaining and improving our public schools?

mark otto

12:32 am on Wednesday, February 6, 2013

Dale, because of whack jobs like you, I voted Democrat last election.

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Kristen Skladd

10:50 am on Wednesday, February 6, 2013

Hello everyone,

Please remember we all have the right to our own opinion and you are welcome to share yours by blogging on Patch like Dale. Please visit http://troy.patch.com/blog/apply.

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John David

2:57 pm on Wednesday, February 6, 2013

Kristen,

We do have the right to our own opinion. I don't really understand why you make this comment in two blogs. Did someone violate the terms of use for Patch? I hope your intent was to try to be fair and evenhanded. Or do you not support comments on blogs, or just Dale's blogs? In response to a December blog in Patch, this is what Dale wrote to the blogger: "Only an unbelieving religion professor would have the audacity to call his book “The American Bible.” A better title would be “The American bible” if such a word is used at all. I’m surprised that a Christian pastor would promote such a blasphemous idea". What Dale's comment says is that the blogger, a minister, was promoting blasphemy, and that the author of the book the blog was written about had committed blasphemy. Pretty strong stuff from Dale. His comments hijacked the conversation of that blog, including efforts to demonstrate to him that his personal offense to the use of the word bible was misplaced and mistaken. Two days after his original comment, Dale posted this "Maybe I was too quick to judge Professor Prothero, since I’ve not read any of his writings". Only after he hijacked the blog, and was corrected did he admit to not reading the book reviewed by the blogger and his other errors. If anyone using the Troy Patch is using comments on blogs incorrectly, especially hijacking others' blogs for his own unrelated opinions, it is frequently done by Dale.

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Dale Murrish

5:44 pm on Wednesday, February 6, 2013

Context, John David. You ripped parts of what I wrote completely out of context and put it in the worst possible light. You left out the gracious things I wrote and also the deafening silence from John and Pastor Bob Cornwall, who were breezily discussing my views until I responded.

I didn’t “admit to any other errors,” except assuming that Professor Prothero was unbelieving (it’s probably a good guess, though), just explained what I meant. Others who want the whole story can read it here:

http://troy.patch.com/blog_posts/the-american-bible-a-review

John wouldn’t give his last name when I asked him directly, and neither do you. I think he’s John Kulesz, whom I sat next to at a council meeting and had a good conversation with. A nice guy who has different views than me.

Kristen is just trying to moderate the on-line discussion and keep it civil. She suggested that everyone could write their own blog articles (you’d have to use your full names). We’ll see how many people read them. In the meantime you can continue to disagree with my political and religious opinions and quote me out of context.

But please don’t insult my King or His Word. It’s not just a collection of important religious writings, despite what you and others may think. The Bible is the instruction manual from the Creator of the universe, and we ignore it at our peril. We cannot pick and choose what we accept – that puts us on the throne, not God.

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Daffy Noodnicks

6:49 pm on Wednesday, February 6, 2013

It is very difficult to keep things civil when you keep posting/blogging inflammatory things. You have long abandoned civility. Nobody should be surprised when people respond in kind. You are extremely disrespectful of people who believe differently than you. This very blog post is an excellent example.

Nobody is responsible to you or owes you their name or anything else. Your silence is deafening throughout your blogs and comments. Why should anyone feel obligated to respond to you? You are frequently exposed as out of line and inaccurate, yet you ignore those comments and keep referring back to articles.

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John David

8:15 pm on Wednesday, February 6, 2013

Dale,
Context: http://troy.patch.com/blog_posts/the-american-bible-a-review Pastor Cornwall blogs a book review, you are the first to comment with exactly what I cited - the blasphemy accusations. 5 days later you admit you did not know who the book's author was that you said was blasphemous. I erred in saying you admitted other errors. I thought after you were informed that the word bible is frequently used in book titles for many subject, and properly capitalized, that you realized your error. I can't find you did admit not knowing the proper use of capitalization in book titles or the frequent use of the word bible for guidebooks. But now you say you assume Prothero is unbelieving.

My point is that you attacked a blogger for printing a book title using a common form - Bible - as an attack on Christ, when it was no such thing and called the blogger a promoter of blasphemy. You have hijacked other blogs before, taking unrelated subjects and turning the discussion to your political and religious views.

As I have shown here, you have been a major proponent of incivility on the Patch. You cannot say you have not when you have made religious accusations against anyone, much less a blogger who simply posted a book review of a book with Bible in the title, and when you hijack other blogs for your purposes. When is comes to moderating for civility, Kristen should look at what you have written first.

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Daffy Noodnicks

11:55 am on Thursday, February 7, 2013

In general I don't really respond to Dale's national political or religious opinions. He is entitled to his opinions. In general, I respond to (often) wrong information and the abundant attacks that Dale makes on people who believe differently than him. Very frequently my views don't correspond with the groups he attacks, I just don't like the attacks. An opinion should be able to stand on it's own without have to attack another opinion (especially attacks which are usually illogical or otherwise unreasonable).

The discussion above is a case in point. Dale thinks someone believes differently than him. Therefore, that person is probably an "unbeliever". It is irrational and insulting (who is he to say?), but I'm sure he will just say he is presenting another opinon to make a soup or some such, as if that makes the insult ok.

I think it is possible that many people who respond to Dale have very little in common religiously or politically other than not appreciating his attacks and false information.

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John David

12:46 pm on Thursday, February 7, 2013

I've tried to ignore Dale's blogs and comments, but some comments are outrageous, categorical, offensive to individuals or groups, or based on biased information and not on facts. I actually share much of his political and religious beliefs, and those I don't share, I do understand. Maybe no one should care what he says. Anyone has a right to blog and comment, but not to accuse, attack, name call, or hijack other blogs. He's hijacked one recently, turning the discussion to abortion and his views, and when challenged that it was off topic, indicated it was his right and imperative duty to do so even if it was completely off topic (I'm characterizing his response, not quoting, just so he knows). I'm going to try again to ignore him.

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Neal Charness

12:51 pm on Thursday, February 7, 2013

FWIW: the Patch likes the heated debate coming from posts and then clamps down on it when they've had enough. It's just business. The same thing happened with school bond/board issues in Bloomfield Hills. I understand it but they don't have "clean hands." I have no comment on the substance of the thread.

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John

3:15 pm on Saturday, February 9, 2013

Dale,

Um, you invoked my name and said I'm failing to respond.

For the record, yes I'm the John K. of the recall effort. And I'm not quite sure what conversation you're referring to. I tend to not allow the Patch to send me email updates for articles I've commented on. And if I've lost track of something, it's because I've not been paying attention to the Patch.

Daffy Noodnicks

12:56 pm on Wednesday, February 6, 2013

Kristen: Dale posts some very inflammatory things that are extremely insulting and often factually inaccurate. You cannot allow that sort of thing to appear without people confronting it. That is people expressing their opinions, too. Don't we have right to do so and express our opinions? Or should I stop visiting the Patch?

Wiley Coyote

12:35 pm on Thursday, February 7, 2013

I can tell you with 100% certainty that the only reason I ever respond to Dale's tediously repeated inane commentary on the Patch is because while grotesquely stupid nearly all the time, to let it go unanswered runs the risk of it being validated for some people by silence otherwise. Why Dale thinks his world view needs to be placed into the public forum is beyond me. All he does is make himself look worse, blog by blog. Perhaps the Patch enjoys the controversy. Personally, I think he an attention-hound who is just willfully dragging our community down with endless inflammatory statements, and wish the Patch would stop running him altogether. If he wants to blog somewhere, he should find a publication that better relates to his positions.

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Dale Murrish

5:35 pm on Thursday, February 7, 2013

Good idea; maybe I’ll write for a conservative blog AND still submit articles to the Patch. Two birds with one stone!

If this happens, I’ll let Patch readers know where they can read other conservative ideas besides mine.

Dale Murrish

5:34 pm on Thursday, February 7, 2013

We’ll let Patch readers judge whether my writing or your comments are worth reading. Both are entertaining or serious commentary on the state of our culture depending on your point of view. I’ve been trying to convince readers that intelligent people can have differing opinions on various topics of importance.

Many others agree with me but do not care to be chased off the Patch by commenting. If we understood each other better and commenters were more polite (compare Bob Cornwall’s polite disagreement and mine to yours), maybe there would be less division in Troy and in America.

The Patch is maintaining the open forum (First Amendment) that we all cherish in America. Getting free articles from everyone fits their business model. People obviously spend time “fact checking” my opinions, which they disagree with.

As far as being civil, Kristen apparently thought some of you had stepped over the line. Some chose to argue with her instead of getting your own blogs. It’s a lot easier to make snarky comments like mark otto than write a decent article.

Neal is right; controversy makes news (Patch’s business), but getting people talking about issues is a good thing. Sometimes combining ideas from dialogue gives us the best solution. I’ve learned from the feedback.

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Daffy Noodnicks

5:08 pm on Friday, February 8, 2013

Your disagreements, comments, and blogs are certainly not polite. Anyone who posted what is at the top of this page can make no claim to politeness. And that is just an example that is close at hand.

Wiley Coyote

3:34 pm on Friday, February 8, 2013

"I’ve been trying to convince readers that intelligent people can have differing opinions on various topics of importance."

Dale, you do nothing of the sort. You insult and demean everyone who has a different opinion from your own on politics, religion, marriage equality, you name it, with virtually every column you write. The amazing thing is, you act as if you are apparently unaware that you've done it, even when it is repeatedly brought to your attention.

We question your intelligence when you continue to defend ugly, bigoted opinions as expressed by people like our former mayor, and now your own reveal in a previous post of your opinion of gay people as not normal. Really? Do you know any? Have you ever spent time with anyone who is gay? Ever seen a gay family? You have no right to judge anyone...remember, it says so in the bible.

You throw out these ugly bombs, your own small, hateful thoughts, then hide behind ancient passages in the bible and "My King" to justify your prejudices. It truly is "the last refuge of the scoundrel."

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Dale Murrish

9:25 pm on Saturday, February 9, 2013

Yes, I know some gay people. Most are kind, loving, creative people, just like most heterosexuals. I just do not think it is good public policy for the government to grant them marriage licenses. They should not be reviled or otherwise persecuted, nor given special privileges. I don't think I said gay people were not normal; I don't believe that. We all have temptations and fall short in one way or another.

I think I said gay sexual behavior is not normal. Two men cannot make a baby; neither can two women. By definition, gay sex is unnatural and therefore not what God has designed - one man and one woman for marriage.

God also did not design it for a man and woman to divorce except for marital unfaithfulness or abandonment. Just because no one can meet all of God's standards does not mean we should relax them or ignore them. That's the whole point of the cross - Jesus died to redeem us from our sin.

If some consider that bigoted, so be it. It is what the Bible teaches, and as a Christian I am compelled to follow it. But please don't take what I have said and stretch it any further.

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Daffy Noodnicks

10:49 pm on Saturday, February 9, 2013

If you are talking about how you choose to live your life, that's your business.

If you are talking about anyone else, you are completely bigoted. Your interpretation of what you think the bible says does not entitle you to belittle other people.

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Dave W

2:43 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Dale, I would love to hear your legal argument against gay marriage, because citing the Bible does not work in court. You say that you don't "think it is good public policy for the government to grant them marriage licenses" and go on to imply that procreation is a requirement for marriage. Funny, I don't think people are required to have children in order to get married. In fact, I don't think believing in God is a requirement for marriage under the law. Athiests can get married by the state and receive a marriage license. What is so difficult to understand about the difference between civil and religious marriage? Civil marriage is a legal contract with the state between two individuals who publicly declare they wish to spend the rest of their lives together. Religious marriage is a sacred rite performed by one's religious denomination. Gay couples are fighting for the first (not "special privileges"), while social conservatives (mostly) fight "to protect" the second. Again, this is you wanting to legislate your personal beliefs based on religion. If you really want to protect marriage, then you should focus on making divorce & adultery illegal. While I disapprove of both, I also disagree with criminalizing them under the law.

I am a gay man. I want you to explain to me how my getting married destroys or damages "the institution of marriage". I mean specifically in Troy, MI, how would my marriage affect anyone else in Troy? (And please don't cite the Bible)

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Thomas Gagne

7:16 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Dale, God's word is for God's people. The United States of America is not a theocracy so scripture can't be made law "just because."

If because of your religious background you believe gay people ought not to marry, then you shouldn't marry another man, nor bless the marriage of your sons to other men or daughters to other daughters. That's your prerogative and obligation to piety.

To prohibit others from same-sex marriages you will need a better argument describing a compelling government interest in rejecting them. I see no such argument. But I can't articulate a compelling argument why government cares about marriage generally, gay or not. What the government is interested in, and cultures throughout history, is children. Nations, tribes, and clans would disappear and be for naught if they didn't have children to renew and immortalize them. And for that compelling interest, the government has had a historical, but now misplaced interest in marriage.

So while you or Ms. Hollis may think we've crossed a line, I think we may be able to renew ourselves for the better through a better understanding of what our nation's interest really are, and in doing so find we've better laws in God's eyes than before when we were blind.

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Daffy Noodnicks

1:44 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

I'm not an expert in this area, and clearly I don't spend as much time as Dale thinking about the topic, so check me if I'm wrong here: I am not aware of an act of lovemaking that gay people can engage in that straight people aren't capable of engaging in as well. Is he saying no sex should occur except for reproduction? No people should be allowed to marry unless children can be produced? Because I am dead set against both ideas. The bit about only divorces he thinks are ok should be allowed is super too. Apparently he doesn't think savage abuse is grounds for divorce. There's a key to his thinking and what we're dealing with here.

I little while ago, he said (correctly) what other people do in the privacy of their bedrooms is their business. Here we are with his making it his business, again. Are you retracting your earlier statement Dale? Was it never true?

Also, gay people have kids naturally and by adopting for all sorts of reasons. Bigotry like Dale's promotes discriminating against these families at law. I think these families should be treated fairly and not discriminated against, even if Dale thinks they are are icky, or he thinks the Bible tells him they are icky. The Bible should have no sway in this country in matters of civil law.

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Daffy Noodnicks

1:47 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

I would bet knows many more gay people than he thinks he does. I imagine gay people would be comfortable being out to someone so intolerant and bigoted.

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John David

3:07 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Daffy,

I was thinking about gay marriage during church today. I think people concentrate on sexual "orientation" and sex acts. Like you said, there is no sex act a gay can engage in that a straight person can't, and I am sure, have engaged in. What I think people ought to focus on is the humanity of everyone. If a person is attracted to and loves someone of the same gender, why should they be excluded from marriage, if that is what they want? Marriage is a legal, civil union, primarily, in the US. States set rules like when you can apply for a license, how long a license is good for until you get married, but does not require a religious wedding. Religious organizations can marry couples within the law and subject to their own requirements. Judges and others can marry couples within state law. I see no reason why under our law that same sex couples should be prohibited from marrying. There are benefits to them that would apply that they cannot obtain other than thru marriage, such as the right to be present when they are hospitalized, property rights, and other rights heterosexual couples are given by law. Religion should not prevent this. It took a Supreme Court ruling to allow whites to marry non-whites. Miscegenation was illegal in many states until the ruling in Loving v Virginia, a state decision based on biblical "separation of the races". I don't think it's a stretch that such a ruling will eventually apply to gays.

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Daffy Noodnicks

4:17 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

John David: My opinion on the issue is very much the same as what you stated. This being tax season, it is incredibly easy to see how gay families are discriminated against. On the issue of humanity, I think things like kids being brought up in same sex families having to feel as though society thinks less of their family is just plain an awful injustice.

It is also important to note that nowhere in any of the increasing numbers of places where it is legal for gay people to get married, no church has ever been compelled to marry anyone they didn't want to. It would be beyond the pale for that to ever become law. I understand and respect religious objections. Religious objections just aren't a basis for civil law for the entirety of society.

I even respect the right of people to have the opinion that <insert here> people are icky for Biblical or any other reason. I think it's awful, horrid, and repellent, and if anyone says so around me I will say so. A community website represents the community. I don't want anyone to think Dale's bigotry, or our awful former mayor is representative of Troy. I have a substantial investment here, and I am raising my beautiful little Noodnicks here.

It is also interesting to note that gay people are getting married all over this country at this time. I love Mrs. Noodnicks more every day I am fortunate enough to married to such a wonderful person, and the sanctity of our marriage has not suffered in the tiniest bit.

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John David

4:30 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Ya gotta love them little Noodnicks! All of them.

Thomas Gagne

5:55 pm on Saturday, February 9, 2013

Ms. Hollis does an interesting job identifying her flavor of symptoms of a sickening America, but I believe she doesn't really explore the cause. Voters will always interpret their political choices through their own prisms, and yes, those prisms create division where they compete over policy. But until we're willing to explore a change to how states apportion their electors, we'll be forever mired in the vicissitudes of voters, partisanship, the consequences of direct or nearly-direct democracy, and James Madison's tyranny of the majority.

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Dale Murrish

5:43 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013

If you mean proportional appointment of Presidential Electors like Nebraska and Maine by Congressional Districts, along with an end to gerrymandering like Iowa's Congressional District's law, I’m all for it.

Kevin G

9:13 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

You are ALL at fault for the existence of this Murrish fellow. He is a wretched narcissist & only exists because people engage him. He is nothing more than a Rick Santorum wanna be, let his moment in the light dim and fade away already. He is not relevant to anything real or possible and it needs to stop already.

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Thomas Gagne

9:30 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

So you suggest hurling ad hominems to counter his opinion? With as wide a divide as exists between left and right, you believe insults will build the bridge we need to find moderation? How can your advice be any more constructive and irrational as his?

Kevin G

10:12 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Oh look at you with your rhetoric and all. His arguments have been going on for a couple years that I have seen & he is not looking to discuss or compromise. He is rigid in his beliefs and as proud as one can be, and is not looking to learn about other perspectives. If I had seen one civilized conversation a moment of Dale enlightenment, which I haven't, I would give in to your "bridge," but Dale is not looking for new perspective, he is looking only to change yours. In my world you can be as conservative as you want to be and I do not want to make you into me. We both exist. In his world you are straight out going to hell if you don't follow the book HE accepts as truth. I have seen it over and over and over. If you think adding perspective to his arguments might change a thing, you are delusional. I am not directly on in any harsh way insulting anyone, but calling a spade a spade. Sorry if it bursts your bubble.

Ronald Wolf

6:13 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

"We have met the enemy and he is us" Pogo

Greg Thrasher

7:28 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

The most lethal and backward collective in our nation today are intellectual cowards and cheerleaders most if course are conservatives ...

For decades they have been against basic moral values from humanity to equality . Conservatives have promoted wars, fences, selfish policies .

They are often hypocrites and they often lack the courage to admit their shortcomings often always seeking a scapegoat..,

It is good for the nation to watch the GOP die off .. Good Riddance!!!

Dale Murrish

5:38 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013

Oh, for the innocence of childhood, when we counted lights or ceiling tiles during boring sermons. At least we learned our multiplication tables.

Sorry you were distracted by sexual thoughts instead of focused on worshipping God, John David. It’s a common problem, worshipping the gift instead of the Giver, or the creation instead of the Creator. Maybe you should try visiting a different church.

We also take His gifts and twist them by enjoying them out of the boundaries He has set up for our good. Some even reframe real vices like pornography into virtues and tourist pictures into vices.

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John David

6:27 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013

I was thinking about human rights in relation to Christ's life and teachings. I wasn't distracted.

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Daffy Noodnicks

7:06 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013

How pedantic and obnoxious of you Dale.

Dale Murrish

5:46 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013

Dave W., I already made the argument from natural law, not just the Bible. I could cite civil court cases already underway for extending marriage rights beyond two men or two women. But this would only make some of your supporters angry, so I’d rather not.

I’d ask that you respect my First Amendment rights to practice my religion and free speech. No one is forcing you to read my articles or attend my church. You’re welcome to do both. People who think they’re perfect don’t feel comfortable very long, though.

I’m not causing you material harm by denying you a marriage license or calling gay sex unnatural. It is.

I’m OK with visitation rights in hospitals and property transfer rights. If we need new laws to accomplish that, I’m open to that.

What gives gay advocates the right to redefine marriage as it has been defined in all previous civilizations? And yes, a childless married man and woman is still a marriage. It’s called infertility; some choose to remain childless, while others wait years for healthy infants made scarce by abortion.

America’s value system has been changed by a highly effective thirty year marketing campaign with slogans like “marriage equality,” constant pro-gay advertising from Hollywood and most of the news media, and worst of all, smacking down anyone who disagrees with epithets like “bigot” and “homophobe.” What will the next thirty years bring?

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Dave W

6:43 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013

Dale, your "natural law" agrument still does not hold water in a court of law. I didn't ask you to cite civil cases for polygamy, I asked you for a legal case against same-sex marriage.

I do respect your First Amendment rights, Dale, because I am not asking for laws to be passed against your free speech or your religion. You are free to say whatever you please or practice whatever religion you want without the government punishing you for it. (Note that the First Amendment does not entitle you to say whatever you want without challenge from other citizens, only that the government cannot punish you for it.) I in no way claim to be perfect, so how long until you feel uncomfortable?

You are materially harming me by advocating to deny me the same rights as any other couple under the law. You also seem to be the one fixated on the physical aspect of gay relationships, because you keep coming back to "gay sex is unnatural". As others have correctly pointed out, there is no act that a gay couple peforms that a straight couple can't.

Gay advocates are not "redefining marriage". Marriage has morphed many times over the centuries. In this country alone, it was illegal for interracial couples to marry until 1967. Every argument you make here, is the same as the white preachers in the South at that time.
http://www.equalitygiving.org/files/Marriage-Equality-Same-Sex-Lesbian-Gay-Marriage/Arguments_Against_Interracial_Marriage_and_Equal_Marriage.pdf

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Dave W

6:49 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013

As far as childless marriages, you seem to miss the point. There are many reasons that couples can't have kids, but my point is that those reasons do not disqualify them from getting married, so procreation is not a prerequisite. And for your information, there are hundreds of thousands of children waiting to be adopted in this country; there is no shortage:
http://www.acf.hhs.gov/sites/default/files/cb/waiting2011.pdf

America's value system is one that is constantly evolving to be more inclusive and less discriminatory. I have no doubt that in 30 years no one will care about the issue of gay marriage or anyone being gay, except maybe religious zealots who want to push their beliefs on everyone else.

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Daffy Noodnicks

7:08 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013

But Dale, you are clearly a bigot.

Dale Murrish

5:54 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013

Gay rights advocates want society at large to accept gay sexual behavior and the right to teach my kids that this is a normal alternative lifestyle. Also the right to prosecute people for hate speech when they affirm traditional values. These we will oppose at the ballot box.

You can call me old-fashioned or traditional if you like, but bigot does not describe me or many others who believe in traditional values. A bigot is “rigidly devoted to his or her own group, race, religion or politics and is intolerant of those who differ.” Tolerance means live and let live.

Some people on both sides are actually bigots. The venom heard from many on your side fits that definition – hateful words from those who preach tolerance. We would all benefit from a calmer dialogue.

Thomas Gagne’s approach is better than many others. I respect his opinion. If more were like him we might find some common ground. However, government still has a vested interest in what is best for the children because it is what sustains a society.

It still takes a family, not a village, to raise a child. Solid two-parent families do a better job on average than single parents. The church or government can provide a safety net, but any of these make a poor substitute for a mother and a father.

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Dave W

7:04 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013

Dale, again, I nor any "gay rights advocates" are looking for your input on sexual behavior. I don't need to know what you do in privacy and you don't need to know what I do. You can also teach your kids whatever you want, you would be the parent, but for those kids who are gay you are being very destructive, whether you want to believe that or not.

You wouldn't be a bigot if you weren't rigidly devoted to your own religious beliefs and intolerant of those of us different from you. "Tolerance means live and let live", yet you are not tolerant because you are trying to make it illegal for me to marry the person I love. You may not approve of it, but you don't have the right to make it illegal, which is why you are labeled as such. No one is asking you to marry someone of the same sex, or your church to perform the ceremony, or you to even approve, the whole point is that it is none of your business. The only reason you oppose it is because of your religious beliefs, and that's fine, but again you can't impose those beliefs or legally punish those who don't share them. I don't believe that I spew venom at you, Dale, I merely disagree with you and offer the reasons/data why. I don't care what you do in your life, or with who, or how you do it, but you seem to want to tell me (via the law) what I can do.

You are correct that two-parent families better provide for (statistically) children than single parents, but that doesn't mean biological father and mother.

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Daffy Noodnicks

7:10 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013

But Dale, you are clearly a bigot. Calling someone else unnatural is hate speech. You are disgusting.

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Daffy Noodnicks

8:01 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013

As long as you exercise your first amendment rights to spread your antigay bigotry and lies, I will be here exercising my first amendment right to say how horrible you are being.

Dale Murrish

8:14 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013

Dave W., I've not received any venom from you, just disagreement. The venom comes from some others:

Daffy Noodnicks/Matt Goodman, would you please read what I wrote through some clear glasses before throwing it back at me with untrue insults? I said certain sexual behavior is unnatural, whether performed by straights or gays. Just because something is possible does not mean it is healthy or natural.

By the way, the racist interpretations of the previous marriage laws were totally wrong. There is only one race, the human race. The preachers who preached against interracial marriage misinterpreted the Bible, as I've written elsewhere. So that is not a valid argument for gay marriage.

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Dave W

9:00 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013

Dale, your interpretation of the Bible is no less flawed or incomplete than those preachers of the 1960s. I hope that you are not claiming to have an absolute understanding of the Bible, because I'm not sure that is possible considering the revisions and translations over the past 2000 years. Even so, there are many Christians who disagree with your interpretation, Matthew Vines being a very vocal one. Not that the interpretations really matter, because using the Bible is not a valid argument for denying gay marriage.

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Daffy Noodnicks

9:33 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013

When you say you were also referring to straight people that is also untrue. You have referred to gay sexual behavior specifically multiple times.

Daffy Noodnicks

8:50 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013

Dale: why should anyone care how you rank different sexual behaviors, and why is it appropriate for you to be dwelling on the topic in a community website? Your definition of "unnatural" is untrue. You have said gay sex is unnatural which is untrue for gay people. It is not natural for heterosexuals to have homosexual sex, and vice versa. People engage in sex, you have clearly said gay people behave unnaturally in a sexual manner which is untrue. That is bigotry. And somehow, you have convinced yourself that this nonsense justifies not extending equal protections under the law to other citizens.

The point about inter racial marriage is, you will be perceived the same way in historical terms. A lot of people already see you that way. A lot of people would also say you are misinterpreting the Bible.

The gay people who live in Troy have been through enough with our horrible former mayor. They don't need your irrational judgements. Personally, I find them repellent on many levels, and I will say so. If you want me to stop saying you are spreading false bigoted information, then stop saying it.

THEODORE GIBSON

9:19 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013

DALE MURRISH: You said you support the government imposing regulations against marriage equality because "government still has a vested interest in what is best for the children because it is what sustains a society."
I thought you were opposed to big government regulations infringing on our individual liberties. I am confused...Do you want big government or not? Do you want the government telling us how to best raise our children? Please clarify your position for me and help me understand your point of view. Thanks Dale!

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Timothy Rath

10:00 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013

We'll close the comments on this now. It's getting a little out of hand. Feel free to contact me with questions or concerns. Thanks for contributing!

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